望子成龙，望女成凤，是每一个父母的心头所愿，父母都在孩子身上寄托了殷切希望。所以，在孩子的成长中，家长朋友往往是“迫切”的，唯恐自己的孩子输在了起跑线上，从上幼儿园，到上小学，再到上初中高中，每一个阶段都被看得非常重要。
家庭对一个人的人格养成极为重要，家庭里充满了牵挂，孩子就被留下牵挂的习惯;刚刚过去的北京冬奥会，我们看到运动员们在赛场上奋力拼搏、摘金夺银，其中谷爱凌、苏翊鸣几位冰雪小将更是引起了极大的关注和热议，他们小小年纪却散发出强大的自信与坚定，成为人们津津乐道的“别人家的孩子”。
在人生旅途中，如果我们用80%的时间内耗，那便只剩20%的时间成长。请一定告诉我们的女孩，尽全力奔赴山海，不要回头徘徊。作者 | 可乐妈最近，我在后台看到了这样一则求助：“鹿妈，我女儿今年上初一，她平时特别喜欢跟朋友们在一起玩。但我能明显地感觉到，她一直在讨好别人。
I have 16 years of experience in education and teaching with children aged 3 to 10. I once had a student named Kevin. I spoke to the Chinese teacher and was told that he would frequently have outbursts and difficulty socialising with others.When I communicated with him， he once told me:“Everyone thinks I’m a bad boy， so I act bad.” He was stunned when I told him， “I don’t think you’re a bad boy.” That was the first turning point.It was essential that Kevin had a similar structure in school and at home and was involved in its creation. Once Kevin had been given the skills to handle any future outbursts， the next step was to boost his confidence in his academics. This was done in multiple ways， but it was essential to ensure that Kevin was interested.
