References /少女用到的文献资料:Bowker . Having and being an other-sex crush during early adolescence. Journal of Experimental Child Psychology，629-643.
网络上的各大博主都对crush做出了一番解释，但是听来听去都还是迷迷糊糊的，不是很能理解那种感觉。爱情如果是一场肺结核，crush则是一场感冒，肺结核让人元气大伤死逃生，感冒则是让你咳嗽一下打喷嚏，但她时不时就会发作一次。
A pair of black swans shaped like a heart as they move closer to each other in a lotus pool in Beijing's Old Summer Palace on Aug 3， 2019.迷恋，热恋，爱慕。
