宠爱，物质上到了极限，黛玉和宝玉一样，老太太还成天给黛玉零用钱，怕外孙女委屈了，所以说，在物质上黛玉是享受了超越国公府千金的待遇，就凭这个，不能说贾母委屈了表小姐，要是客人里，黛玉还委屈，邢姑娘要跳河呀。
周瑞家:各位都有了，这两枝是姑娘的了。It's confusing and frustrating to be on the receiving end of passive-aggression， and at the end of the day， healthy relationships are all about open and honest communication.
