简而言之，就是你终于意识到自己其实不是主人公——因为每个人都是主人公。John在演讲中说道:We all think of ourselves as the main character and everyone else is just extras. But in reality， we are all the main character， and you yourself are an extra in someone else's story.
圈儿词【宋】朱淑真相思欲寄无从寄，画个圈儿替。话在圈儿外，心在圈儿里。单圈儿是我，双圈儿是你。你心中有我，我心中有你。月缺了会圆，月圆了会缺。整圈儿是团圆，半圈儿是别离。我密密加圈，你须密密知我意。还有数不尽的相思情，我一路圈儿圈到底。
